How to Celebrate the Scorpio in Your Life + Horoscopes for Every Sign
Written by Laura Cowan | @6th.house.astro
Welcome to Scorpio season, where the air is crisp and the veil between the living and the dead is at its thinnest. Scorpio is a water sign traditionally ruled by Mars, like Aries, but with a different mode of operation. Think of Aries as boldly charging forward with a fiery disposition, while Scorpio is a quiet, calculated strategist. Expect someone with this Sun and/or rising sign to be intense, resilient, and perceptive. Scorpios are passionate and crave depth in all facets, which definitely applies to their interests. When something fascinates them, they can become obsessive and want to know everything there is to know about their subject. They make excellent researchers due to this. Their behavior also applies to people. Scorpios love to discover the core of who you are if you pique their interest. They enjoy having a mystery to solve. However, you better tell them the truth, because they can intuitively sense dishonesty. Scorpios don’t do phony, and if there’s one thing they especially can’t stand, it’s a liar. Because of this, it can take time to get a Scorpio to open up to you. Once you prove to them that you are genuinely trustworthy, then they will be a loyal friend for life. However, do not betray their trust once you’ve earned it. They will use that stinger of theirs to get vengeful, if needed. They can even struggle with things like the need to maintain ruthless power and control over others, if there is an underlying unhealed wound. However, like an actual scorpion molting its exoskeleton to grow, so too does Scorpio. This sign is no stranger to shadow work and transformation. They experience many phases of inner alchemy to emerge anew, and make excellent healers when they master this process. They appreciate the inherent beauty found in the cycles of life, death, and re-birth. If you need someone to give you honest tips on how to effectively change your life for the better, ask your Scorpio friend for advice.
Help celebrate the Scorpio in your life by giving them something that matches their depth while quietly making a statement. Jewelry featuring darker metals and stones, such as oxidized sterling silver, gunmetal, black tourmaline, or onyx, is a wonderful idea. If they enjoy exploring their metaphysical side, a tarot deck, an esoteric book, a birth chart reading, or a healing crystal set are all great options. If they like reading, a mystery novel, a poetry book, or a handwritten letter confessing your feelings of adoration for them are all a few of their favorite things to receive. Perhaps they enjoy curating a moody vibe in their home. Incense or candles featuring strong woody, musky, or spicier scents are usually appreciated. Think patchouli, pepper, or coffee. Scorpio rules the reproductive and excretory systems, fitting as they are associated with creation, birth, and death. An artistic approach is appreciated here — think anywhere from a cheeky rendition of Marcel Duchamp’s Fountain to a vase shaped like a nude torso, genitals obviously included. Odds are, your Scorpio friend wants to keep birthday celebrations more private. If they imbibe, an exclusive wine or spirit tasting with a few of their favorite people is appealing to them. A small, private dinner at a restaurant that hardly anyone has heard of (yet) is very on brand for Scorpio. However, don’t be surprised if they suddenly disappear from their birthday without telling you. You may not hear from them for days with no response to your “Happy birthday!” message…and suddenly, they’re sending voice notes about their solo getaway and selectively posting pictures to Instagram. Still unsure of what to get them? Something that speaks to the nature of your bond from the depths of your soul will always suffice.
Scorpio Season Horoscopes
Scorpio season began on October 23 this year. On October 24, Mercury in Scorpio stationed retrograde. Expect unresolved power dynamics and conversations that you believed were dead and buried to rise from the grave. On October 25, the Taurus Full Moon stationed exact at 11:11 PM CST. This forced us to reconcile our need for depth and transformation with our need for stability and familiarity. Venus retrograde dipped back into Libra and formed an out-of-sign opposition, adding a vibe of justice, reciprocity, and balance in relationships and self-worth with this lunation. Chiron retrograde in Aries was also involved as an out-of-sign conjunction, which likely triggered personal wounds that needed to come back up for a healing journey. This is especially applicable if you still have lingering wounds that involve exerting your leadership and authority in any capacity.
On November 5, Mars enters its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo. This gives us a preview of the types of energy, frustration, and conflict that we can expect to see unfold during the retrograde on January 10. The Scorpio New Moon stations exact on November 9 at 1:02 AM CST. This gives us an opportunity for regeneration and to start our shadow work so we can facilitate some much-needed personal growth. With Venus retrograde in Libra forming a sextile to the Mars-Jupiter-South Node in Leo conjunction, this lunation is also meant to force us to majorly check our egos and weigh self versus others. Then, on November 13, both Mercury retrograde in Scorpio and Venus retrograde in Libra station direct. Tangled emotions, relationship evaluations, and hidden truths that were exposed are finally ready to be processed in the post-retrograde shadow phase. You may notice your thoughts and words finally catching up to your feelings, allowing you to sort through lingering confusion through December 15, when Venus finally ends its retrograde. The Sun enters Sagittarius on November 22, ending this year’s Scorpio season. Be sure to sign up for our newsletter to get notified for your Sagittarius season horoscope!
For a more personal impact, read below for both your sun and rising signs:
Scorpio: Happy birthday, Scorpio! Mercury stationed retrograde in your sign on October 24, bringing previous conversations around your role in certain power dynamics to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that, in order to achieve stability within your partnerships and collaborative projects, you need to release your need for total personal control. Remember, two people with two separate sets of boundaries are involved in relationships, and Venus retrograde re-entering Libra with this lunation likely highlighted this for you. With Chiron retrograde in Aries, you might have noticed what wounds around taking action in your daily life that need to be healed — then you will find the security you are seeking with others.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any public arguments or challenges to your authority or reputation that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The new moon in your sign on November 9 gives you a personal renewal regarding how you show up in the world. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how your hidden desires have impacted your career goals. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in your sign on November 13 returns clarity to your thoughts and words. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra has you craving justice with hidden enemies, or learning how to value your boundaries better so no one tries to sabotage your healing journey ever again.
Sagittarius: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around your role in self-sabotaging your healing journey to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in your routine means releasing the need for total control over your healing journey. Sometimes, you have to let go in order to grow. Take into account who has been there for you on this path so far, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around boldly expressing yourself still need to be healed in order for you to find the security you’re seeking within your daily life.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges to your personal opinions that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 regenerates you with rest and retreat from the world. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize what relationships in your community have beliefs that truly align with yours. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your subconscious mind. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra has your social justice streak on high alert, or maybe you’re evaluating whether or not the relationships in your various networks are fair.
Capricorn: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around your role in networking and community to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in your self-expression means releasing the need for total control over what your friends might think or say about your creative vision. Remember who has publicly supported you so far, and Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around family trauma still need to be healed in order for you to find the security you’re seeking by being yourself.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments around shared resources or intimacy challenges that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 renews your connection to your personal networks. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how your relationships to people with greater power than you is increasing your authority over others. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your future goals. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of who actually respects you, or evaluating whether or not people fairly view your reputation.
Aquarius: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around your authority and reputation to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in your private life means releasing the need for total control over how other people choose to perceive you. Remember who has helped teach and mentor you, as that’s who matters. Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around processing new information still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with your relationships that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 restores your passion for your professional goals and desired legacy. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how differences in opinions and beliefs have impacted your partnerships. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your legacy. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of your values on justice, or evaluating whether or not you’re ready to share your personal philosophy with the world.
Pisces: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around your opinions and beliefs to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in how you learn and process information means releasing the need for total control over outdated convictions that prevent you from having an open mind. Remember who knows and understands you the best, as that’s who is going to help you see a different perspective. Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around money and self-worth still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with your coworkers that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 restores your passion for teaching and broadcasting your knowledge. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how intimacy and shared resources have impacted your routine and health. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your point of view. Venus retrograde also stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of your opinions on closeness, or evaluating whether or not people are being fair with what they share with you.
Aries: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around intimacy and sharing to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in your personal finances means stopping giving monetary control to others while making a plan to budget better and pay off your debts. Remember which partnerships of yours could be beneficial in helping you with this, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in your sign nearby made you notice what wounds around identity and self-image still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with your crush that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 regenerates your psyche and empowers your psychological breakthroughs. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how relationships and collaborative projects have impacted your joy and creative output. When Mercury retrograde stations direct in Scorpio on November 13, your ability to trust will be restored. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of one-on-one dynamics, or evaluating whether or not others you partner with are matching the same energy you bring to the relationship.
Taurus: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around partnerships and collaborative efforts to the surface. The full moon in your sign on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in your personal identity means that you need to stop giving away so much power and control to your relationships. Remember that mindfulness and routines are what will anchor you better, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around boundaries and self-undoing still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with your family that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 renews your friendships, business partnerships, and romantic relationships. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how your daily habits have impacted your living situation. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your one-on-one dynamics. Venus Retrograde, stationing direct in Libra, brings awareness of your coworking relationships and evaluating whether or not you are prioritizing physical health and wellness.
Gemini: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around daily habits and routines to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability with your mental health means you need to stop exerting tightly-wound control over your routines. Remember that keeping up with the hobbies that bring you joy is important, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around community and networking still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with your siblings or neighbors that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 regenerates your physical health and vitality. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how your overall happiness has impacted your ability to retain new information. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your wellness journey. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of your originality, or evaluating whether or not your dating life is fair to what you’re currently able to give.
Cancer: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around creativity and joy to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability within your community means you need to release trying to control how much of yourself you choose to genuinely express. Remember that how accepted you feel by others stems from whether or not you felt accepted by your family growing up, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around your reputation and seizing authority still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with your personal finances that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 renews your interest in your hobbies. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo makes you realize how your early years at home have impacted your relationship with money and security. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your imagination. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of the significance of your past relationships, or evaluating whether or not your family values have an impact on your partnerships.
Leo: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around family and your living situation to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability with your use of power and authority means learning how to stop letting your emotions control you. Remember that your delivery in communication matters, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around having courage in your convictions still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in your sign on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges to your ego that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 has you kicking back at home. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in your sign will make you realize that how you speak to different people has impacted the types of relationships that others are able to have with you. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your memories. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of the significance of your learning style, or evaluating whether or not how you process information has been fair when forming your opinions and beliefs.
Virgo: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around news you recently received to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in sharing your opinions and beliefs means learning how to release control over gatekeeping your knowledge. Remember that your relationship to your values is playing a role here, as Venus retrograde re-entering Libra this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around sharing still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges to your mental health that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 has you processing new information or sharing some gossip with a trusted friend. Venus retrograde in Libra aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo will make you realize that your self-worth has impacted your relationship to your boundaries with others. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your communication style. Venus retrograde stationing direct in Libra makes you aware of your finances, or evaluating whether or not your talents are being used properly to generate your desired income.
Libra: Mercury stationed retrograde in Scorpio on October 24, bringing previous conversations around personal finances to the surface. The Taurus full moon on October 25 made you realize that gaining stability in sharing the truth of who you are with someone means releasing control over being judged by what you have. Remember that tying your identity to your worth is what creates this insecurity, as Venus retrograde re-entering your sign this lunation highlighted this for you. Chiron retrograde in Aries nearby made you notice what wounds around healthy partnerships still need to be healed in order to find the security you’re quietly seeking.
Mars begins its pre-retrograde shadow phase in Leo on November 5. Pay attention to any arguments or challenges with friends that arise during this time, as this will come back up next year. The Scorpio New Moon on November 9 breathes new life into your bank account. Venus retrograde in your sign aspecting the Mars-Jupiter-South Node conjunction in Leo will make you realize that your projected image has impacted your relationship to your community. Mercury retrograde stationing direct in Scorpio on November 13 returns clarity to your budgeting goals. Venus retrograde stationing direct in your sign makes you aware of your general outlook and prompts you to evaluate whether the situations you keep finding yourself in with others are fair to you.